What makes you Jewish?
Are you Jewish if you think you are? If others think you are? If your enemies think you are? Your friends? If I think I am Jewish and I Jew well, does that make me Jewish?
I converted to Judaism 14 years ago. It may have taken a good 6 years before I felt Jewish. Was I Jewish before that?
I know several women who have a Jewish household, raise their children Jewish, attend synagogue and except for the fact that they were not born Jewish and did not convert are more Jewish behaving then their husbands in every way. Are they Jewish?
If you were born Jewish and you live in the assimiliated world and do not practice or recognize your Judaism are you Jewish? The Nazis determined that if you were 1/16th Jewish you were Jewish. So if your great grandfather was Jewish you are.
If you grew up in another faith and converted into Judaism in the Reform or Conservative movement are you Jewish? The Orthodox and Hasidic movements have decided that you are not Jewish if you did not convert by one of their own.
Does it matter what other people think? Are you Jewish if you think you are?